In case you live under a rock, last week, the UConn men and women basketball teams each won their NCAA championships. On Monday night, Adam and I ventured to Pacific Beach to meet up with some of our friends who conveniently happen to be from Connecticut (one town over from our hometowns, actually).
The plan was to meet at Shore Club for drinks and the game, but Adam and I opted to get Mexican food beforehand at a taco shop a few blocks up.
We parked next to The Promenade and PB boardwalk* and needless to say, even if we weren’t going to PB to watch the UConn game, it was a really nice walk to the restaurant – you’re literally walking along the ocean until you get to Emerald Street. Then you take a quick turn and Oscar’s is about a block over.
I’d like to preface this by saying that I was super hungry and distracted by thinking about the UConn game, so I didn’t take any photos. So, the photos I’m sharing are from the aforementioned Yelp listing/website (and are linked accordingly).
The place was quiet (it was a Monday evening, after all), and we were able to walk right up to the counter and order. After looking over the menu, I decided on a smoked fish taco and skirt steak taco, and Adam ended up with the battered fish taco and shrimp taco.
We sat ourselves at a table near the window and in less than 10 minutes, our food was ready.
At your table, you’ll find multiple kinds of hot sauce, as well as what tasted like a spicy ranch and a chipotle ranch. You’ll also find napkins, which you’ll need. The tacos (as you can see below) each come in their own little tray, which makes eating them a little less messy.
There’s a reason this place has 4.5 stars on Yelp, and close to 100 reviews. To say these tacos were incredible would be an understatement. The toppings were fresh, the flavors were all there, the tortillas were light and were made on the spot. The tacos and tortillas also weren’t greasy or heavy. Adam and I each had two and we were satisfied when we finished, and didn’t feel heavy, overly full or bloated, which I’d say with Mexican food, is a win. The sauces that were available definitely added to the tacos, but even if you don’t use them, you won’t be missing out.
We are definitely planning on coming back here for the .99 fish taco happy hour, Monday-Thursday, 2:30-5:30 pm.
And with the beach (and beautiful Pacific sunset) literally just a few steps away, I can definitely say that an evening stroll on the boardwalk, followed by tacos at Oscar’s and drinks at a bar nearby, would make a really fun and affordable date night.
The verdict? Would Will definitely eat again.
* Pro tip: According to the official San Diego website, yellow zones are commercial loading zones only between the hours of6:00 am-6:00 pm (with the exception of Sundays and city holidays), unless otherwise posted. We parked against a yellow curb and didn’t get a ticket.
This past Sunday, Maeby’s nails needed a trim, so I drove to the Petco around the corner. I’d been putting it off for over a week, even though it’s a two minute drive away, and after laying around most of Sunday, I decided it was time to stop being so lazy.
As we approached the doors of the grooming section of the store, I stopped and let Maeby sniff around. I noticed an older woman holding her small dog, who was wrapped in a towel and clearly very old. She pointed to Maeby and asked her dog if he liked “the big dog” and we exchanged smiles. As Maeby continued to sniff around, I noticed the woman was kneeling, with her dog struggling to stand on the grass in front of her, and I heard her sniffling. As I looked more closely, I noticed she was crying.
I wasn’t sure if it was appropriate, as in our culture today, I’d argue many people don’t want to be bothered. But this woman seemed very upset, so I asked if she was okay, and began walking over with Maeby. She then told me that her dog was scheduled to be euthanized later that day, as he wasn’t eating and wasn’t able to stand, and she had just taken him into Petco to look at the cats, since he used to live with cats and loved them. I offered the woman a hug, which she accepted, and we continued talking about her dog, Pepe. I told her stories about Oscar, and did my best to comfort her. Even Maeby, who is usually out of control (it’s really embarrassing sometimes, actually), sensed something was going on and was very gentle with this older dog and sweeter than usual to this woman.
When we were done talking, we had exchanged names and a few more hugs, and she seemed to genuinely appreciate that I stopped and asked if she was okay.
The point of this story is this: Go out of your way to do something nice for someone today. It could be as simple as holding a door open or buying coffee for the person behind you at the drive-thru. And if you’re not sure, put yourself in that person’s shoes and imagine how you’d feel if someone did that same nice thing for you.
I have always been super insecure about these red and white bumps on my upper arms, which tend to get better when I’m tan, and worse in the winter. In middle school, my doctor told me it was dry skin, but Google told me otherwise. It’s actually a genetic condition called keratosis pilaris.
Unfortunately, as my dermatologist explained, since it’s purely and aesthetic condition and there isn’t any long-term cure for keratosis pilaris, the only option is to find a short-term solution that will improve the way your skin looks and feels. Techniques and their results vary from person to person, but I’ve tried using an aspirin paste/scrub, tea tree oil, and changing my diet. The aspirin paste kind of worked, the tea tree oil didn’t work at all and even if it did I likely wouldn’t have continued using it because of how strong it smells, and changing my diet only helped a little bit.
There are two products I’ve been using over the past few months, however, that have made a big difference…
SeacretSalt & Oil Scrub and SeacretBody Butter. The whole concept behind Seacret is that it’s made from minerals from the Dead Sea. Whether or not that is actually true, I have no idea. But I can tell you that it has worked for me and helped tremendously with the KP.
I use the scrub in the shower, using small circling motions over my arms, and after I get out of the shower, I use the body butter. I also love the way this stuff smells, so that is an added bonus.
Seacret also sells other products. I’ve used the nail buffing block, which I loved, and I’ve also used the hand cream with shea butter. But in my experience, the body butter is the best moisturizer out there, including for my hands, which tend to get very dry and cracked in the winter.
I know these products are expensive, but if you have KP this may be worth a try. And if it doesn’t work out, the scrub and moisturizer both smell so good that in my opinion they’re worth it.
On a whim (or actually because Adam’s friend is coming to visit this weekend and we still had nothing on our walls), I decided it would be a great idea to make my own painting, considering I’m so artistic (I’m not).
I did a little googling and decided on this idea (their tutorial is very helpful), so after a trip to the dog park, I stopped at Michaels and got everything I needed for this project. PS – Michaels is having a huge sale on canvases right now…like I got a pack of 7 canvases for $9.99.
I got home, and laid everything out, and began painting.
I bought the canvases, four colors of acrylic paint (red, yellow, blue and white), a palette, and some paint brushes (which ended up being the worst brushes I’ve ever used because they kept “shedding” onto my beautiful artwork…either that, or I’m just incompetent, which is probably more likely).
Painting #1 done.
Put your tape in a pattern (like above). Also, check out that creepin’ dog in the background.
Paint where the tape is not covering.
Peel off paint and put on display. Also, become a fan of the Red Sox.
Or a different pattern and different paint.
I swear it’s super easy and it’s a lot of fun to just play around. All of the materials I bought ended up being around $25, so I didn’t really care how it all turned out and with my low expectations, I was actually pleasantly surprised at how much I like everything.
So that, my friends, is how you can create some artwork all on your own.
I’m known for watching bad TV shows. And I’m not ashamed to admit it.
Maybe I am.
Every now and then, I start watching a show that is respected by others, and spoiler alert: Are You The One? on MTV is not that show I’m referring to. I’m thinking more along the lines of Breaking Bad, but also a show that I was hesitant to watch because it seemed kind of depressing and also maybe slightly misguided–by that, I mean, I wasn’t sure how it could keep me engaged and I certainly wasn’t sure where they would be able to take the show.
But last night, with nothing to watch, Adam and I opened up Hulu and there it was: Resurrection. So, we started watching and needless to say, they got me.
I’m sure by now, everyone has at least heard of the show. Prior to its series opener, I heard ads for it on AfterBuzz TV podcasts and heard my favorite radio show talking about it. Then once it premiered, I heard a lot about it. People liked it…a lot.
In case you haven’t heard of it, the whole premise of the show is that people who died come back into the lives of their loved ones, the interesting thing being that time has gone on for the loved ones and the person who comes back looks exactly the same as they did when they passed away, even if that happened 32 years prior. And then of course, writers revealed that just like in real life, those who come back don’t always have good motives. And that’s where they get you. After the second episode, I was left wondering whether or not one of the men who came back was actually the one who had passed away, or if he was some guy that happened to look the same. And if he is the right guy, then why is he so creepy and why does he seem so bad? I’m interested to see what they will do with his character.
Then of course the show raises a thought-provoking question: What would you do if someone you loved that died came back into your life? Certainly we’ve all lost someone we loved; death is a very real part of life and living. So what would it be like if that person came back and how would we respond? Would we question it? Accept anything because we’d be so relieved to have that person back in our lives? It’s really kind of crazy to think about.
And so, here we are, two episodes in, and I’m ready for episode three. I’m excited for it. And now I can proudly state that I’m watching a show that is socially acceptable for a 25 year-old to enjoy. Teen Mom 2 also isn’t one of those shows, but Resurrection is.
So…once again, it’s been awhile. You know, I really thought I’d be all over the whole blogging thing once I moved and had things to write about, but in actuality I’ve just been living. Crazy, right?
In retrospect, I would’ve written about The Bachelor from day 1. I would’ve talked about how I thought Juan Pablo was completely fake, and how I felt like everything about him seemed forced and fixed for television…everything from his accent to his relationship with his daughter to the fact that he was looking for a wife. Of course, I didn’t write about it (or anything for that matter, see above), but if I had, everyone would’ve told me I was crazy for thinking that way and there was a reason why America loved him so much and why he was chosen to be the next Bachelor. Then, as the season went on, I’d continue to say this stuff and people would begin to see it and then I’d get to say “I told you so,” kind of like I did in real life to Adam and my coworkers.
Speaking of coworkers, work is good. Like…really good. Like…I got really lucky that I was able to find a job that is so perfect for me before moving out here. I just had my three month review. Stop and think about that for a second. I’ve already been living in San Diego for three months. Which is crazy but kind of awesome. My review went really well and they seem really happy with me, which is great because I’m really happy there every single day. My coworkers are awesome, the company is really incredible and I’m passionate about the kind of work we do, and the work I do on a day-to-day basis is something I thoroughly enjoy. So yeah, the whole job thing is definitely a win.
You know what else is a win? Life in general. Living with Adam has been really great, and I think it has exceeded both of our expectations. And don’t even get me started on how happy Maeby is. She is (unsurprisingly) my baby and her happiness comes before anyone else’s (Adam included, and he knows this). To say she’s happy is probably an understatement…
We go hiking, we go to the beach, and we go running a few times a week. It’s crazy to think that a year ago, I was living here…
…which is really beautiful as well, don’t get me wrong, but now I’m living here…
Life is crazy, it really is.
What else have I been up to?
Trying to make friends. This is obviously really important and really hard once you become a real-life adult out of college, but my goal is to do at least one social thing a week (usually weekends, and usually more). So like last night, I went to my friend’s house and hung out with her and a few other people. The week before, I went out for another friend’s birthday. It’s hard but I’m trying.
Running! It’s beautiful here…the weather and the scenery. So, I’ve been trying to take advantage and I’ve actually been making a conscious effort to get back into the whole running game. Once I’m doing it regularly, I love it, it’s just getting me to the point where I’m doing it often. This past week, Maeby and I ran 4 days, for a total of 22 miles. It felt great, just ask Maeby. Yesterday I also bought new running shoes (Brooks, for the first time ever), so if I like them maybe I’ll write about them.
Working. Work is busy and traffic sucks, so it’s usually 10-hour days total (with work and my commute), but I’m not mad. It’s kind of awesome.
I suppose that’s about it for now. I’m currently sitting in our backyard. Adam is still asleep, the sun is out and bird are chirping around me, and Maeby is eating sticks.
You deserve someone who loves you are much as you love them.
You deserve someone who calls you when they say they are going to. For that matter, you deserve someone who follows through. And someone who wants to call you and wants to talk to you.
You deserve someone who you can be yourself around. Who gets you. Who loves your sense of humor and who you can really be yourself around.
You deserve someone who won’t judge you for what you eat or how much you work out. You deserve someone who won’t give you a judgmental look when you mention that you ate some ice cream or that you didn’t go for a run that day.
You deserve someone who holds doors open for you, pays for you, and doesn’t feel emasculated if you open the door for them, or you pay for them.
You deserve someone who won’t punish you after an argument.
You deserve someone who wants to show you off to their friends and family.
You deserve someone who, if they don’t feel the same way about you, will tell you and not just ignore you, not reach out to you, or phase you out of their life because they don’t respect you enough to be honest with you.
You deserve someone who respects you. Someone who who won’t play games or manipulate you.
You deserve someone who will make time for you. Someone who won’t make you feel like you are inconveniencing them. Someone who will initiate seeing you and talking to you. Someone who will put in the work, just as you would.
You deserve someone who thinks you are the greatest thing ever, because, well? You are.
And when you find that person, you’ll know why you deserve all of this and so much more. They’ll make sure you know it and you’ll start to believe it.
I don’t want people to think my blog is becoming a place for me solely to review businesses…but I do have to share things I feel passionate about and honestly? Mor Furniture, you are a huge disappointment and I will never, ever go back to you again. Not now, not never.
Back when we first arrived in San Diego in the second week of December, Adam and I went furniture shopping. I wanted to have a couch purchased before I began my new job, as it would be one less thing to worry about.
One of Adam’s friends regretfully got his couch from Mor Furniture (6965 Consolidated Way, San Diego, 866-466-7435), but since it was affordable, we decided to go there anyway. When we stepped inside (keep in mind this was back on December 12), we were in awe of how many options there were and began walking around. A couple of hours, over a thousand dollars, and a meeting with a salesman later, we had purchased a sectional. The only problem was that the couch wasn’t in stock, and we were told it would take three weeks to be built and delivered, meaning it would arrive on January 2, 2014. We liked our couch enough that we were willing to wait.
A week before the scheduled delivery, Adam called and found out the delivery had been pushed back to January 9. We were annoyed, and Adam called the number above (which is a generic customer service line), and after awhile on the phone, he got in touch with our salesman, who profusely apologized for this inconvenience. We decided, again, it was worth the wait.
Until…four days before the new scheduled delivery date, when we called back, we were told delivery was pushed back yet again, this time until January 21.
We couldn’t believe it, but we should’t have been all that surprised. If you look at Mor Furniture’s Yelp, you’ll see the reviews are less-than-great, and many people have experienced what we did and have gone months without receiving their purchased order. And unfortunately, most of the bad reviews are filtered, which would drastically affect its rating and make it closer to a 1-star business instead.
The same day we found this out, we canceled our order (which will apparently take 10 business days to refund…umm…yeah) and went to Home Furniture on El Cajon Blvd in San Diego. Su (who has been running this family business for the past 20 years) was knowledgeable and helpful, and guaranteed our couch would be delivered to us by Wednesday, January 8, at 7 pm. And wouldn’t you know that around 3 pm on Wednesday, we got our couch.
The moral of the story being…
Mor Furniture (also known as Mor Furniture for less) has three locations: 880 Arnele Ave, El Cajon, CA; 900 Los Vallecitos Blvd, San Marcos, CA; and the aforementioned 6965 Consolidated Way, San Diego, CA location.
And I strongly advise anyone in the San Diego area to stay away from this business’s three locations and go elsewhere (preferably to Su at Home Furniture). Mor Furniture is a huge disappointment, and clearly my Mor Furniture review is telling you this place is bad and it’s not worth the time, money, or stress of going there.